Clashing Stereotypes

I don’t get why people only think in stereotypes, We were not born with stereotypes in our lives.

It’s a man made agenda to bind people and not allow them to explore the many sides of their personality. The politics of men towards men and towards women.

Its universally known and accepted that anything that is not natural and not created by god soon see’s the doomsday, I don’t understand stereotypes at all; I am not Adam or Eve.

I didn’t cheat god by eating the forbidden fruit, then why should I bear the same brunt as they did.

Men to sloth on a job and a woman to bear the pain of a child in her womb, But this was ancient history now in the modern times the 21^st century it’s all different.

Nowadays youngsters have girl boy roles only as lovers and friends and not as human beings, Any other relationship other than familial ones are held null, especially humanism.

A man is the protector, the funny one, the cheap one, the loved one, the pampering one, the bread earner and the one holding a relation together.

A woman is shy, fragile, needs help from a man in protection and feeling happy, she is a little jealous, a little insecure, knows her boundaries and laughs but not make any one laugh.

So what happens when break these stereotypes... the worse they become is crude language as social pariahs, Ya and it is the 21^st century per se, we are disintegrating as we evolve. SO IRONIC!

We are becoming more complicated and more narrow minded.

A man if not macho is termed as a sissy ,If one man celebrates a beauty of another man is termed gay, If one man wants to be a stay home dad is termed his wife’s servant or impotent, a man without balls, If a man wears a bright colour shirt is named a pansy

A woman if she wears loose clothes she is termed as a tom boy and men around her make her feel like a boy and don't respect her feelings.

If a woman tries to be funny with her body language she is termed as a looser or a slut , If a woman takes care of herself she is termed as falsely independent by women and treated indifferently, If a woman laughs and shares the same interest as men she is told to get a sex change, If she likes her space as men she is termed insensitive.

No one sees what lies underneath the skin it’s a soul, A soul is not of a man’s or a woman’s it’s a being with emotions.

Such things hurt in ones soul, Try accepting people as they are, as they represent function, as they feel happy.

Take out these stereotypes, try loving the person as a person they are and not for what the social norms have put in your mind.

Let a girl be a cricket star and let a boy be a fabulous ballet dancer, Let a girl be a respected pilot and a man a house keeper.

Let people be what makes them happy.

Jab Aankh Na Lagi

Hum rah dekhte rahe unki ... par koi aahat nah hui;

palko ke chajje pe need ka pehra hone ke bawajood bhi raah na choothi.

Har parayi aahat pe hamari jhapkti aankhein khuli;

par unhe chod kar har insaan ne hamare dil ka darwaza khat khatkataya.

Fer bhi hum unhe talaashte rahe apne har lafz main har baat main har aarzoo main har ek ki shakla main.

The Rise of Jabberwocky!

Once upon a time it happens so, there was a boy and his name was Joe

Joe was young, he was smart and had a lot of dreams in his heart

he tried and tries but never prevailed, he tried to remain happy but always failed

His problem was he never gave time to his work, but this behavior gave him no perks

He cribbed and cribbed but that was of no use, the Jabberwocky in his heart had has his mind fused

This made him loose everything,

A good future, life, family, friends.... what was on his mind was his failure always

He never though that if not today there will be a tomorrow and this made him strike his heart time and again with a pointed arrow

Jabberwocky Jabberwocky fed him on his blood and all insanity came upon him in flood

He laughed at Joe, his horrible laugh and split his soul into half

Pleaded Joe pleaded the Jabberwocky to spare him , trying to chant the holy hymn

Now it was to late to repent as the Jabberwocky had sucked Joe's soul

Gabriel tried and tried but Joe couldn't get out his fouls...

The Easy Way Out

My dreams seem to shatter away,

Where ever I see is compromise,

People telling me to re-start, re-think, re-do and re-live.

What about me? I don’t know the answer myself,

What I know I am tired, confused and in-between the path of giving up.

The rage and frustration is creating a black whole within me,

The never ending pain

The never ending hollow

The never ending unanswered questions.

Why is this? We ask but we never get,

I am trying to get back on track but past still haunts me.

I want to see me in the eye and say it’s possible,

But I am tired and scared of my recurring failures.

I know it’s a part of life, but why why me?

I also know everyone asks the same questions,

But self pity and filth is what makes the doomsday come near.

Rain!

Old towns can be so much more chaotic then big cities

The crammed streets, the noisy kids

The evening end snipe of the mosque

The pigs hounding on each other in the open cans of loathing fragrance.

As dusk dawns on us, it all comes to silence

And on the roof top while laying down, seeing stars

You feel a droplet on your cheek.

God is crying, seeing what the human kind has made itself

The water poured for us to clean our sins and be awake as new.

The sky line is heavenly

One side the orange clouds with the inflating sun

Just opposite to it we see the moon peeking from behind the blue clouds

I have never seen anything like this before

I am feeling cold and so I cress myself

But the feeling goes and as I open my arms again

It’s like I am hugging life, the true nature of our existence

Rain is the way god blesses us.

I am surrounded by so much concrete

Still I feel I can see past everything, the rain has washed all my inhibitions

Beyond the horizon I see a cloud grumbling

Trying to pour what’s in it, so much like you and me

Ready to burst but not able to

The thoughts keep on mounting and we diminish from within

As I repose again on the floor facing the sky

The drops falling on my body, making me feel I am still in a womb

Free of all tension, not answerable to anyone!!

jibber jabber

With POWER comes the seven deadly SINS: wrath, greed, lust, gluttony, envy, jealousy and hubris. With power comes power to do good, to make a difference and bring change. With power of oneself comes the power to ruin and also the power to recreate.

Its for you to choose what you go for!!!

Destruction though attractive is going to massacre your soul and patience though boring would revive your being. Don't question the good in you, though subconsciously present, get it out for you and not for others. Never be scared to explore yourself for yourself, though be scared of failure, this is the key to prevalence to attaining heights.

A bad situation is not to cry its not all bad, its a recursion to a new lesson and not to recreate again.

Go talk to someone else, you don't know!!! its a surprise how you open up to a person you don't know, as you are not scared of judgement. leave it to destiny, stop controlling the scenario. If you don't, leave it to destiny!!!

Where are we headed???

There is nothing left that inspires me anymore
Where ever I look I see people shackled by believes of urban reality.
Where is the inspiration as it was in the past centuries?
Wordsworth’s reality in nature
Arnold’s mused on the suffering and on the loss of a loved one
Eliot mourning towards the wasteland when the world wars struck.

What are we waiting for in the 21st century the new millennium?
Are we waiting for another world war or eternal destruction?
Or are we waiting for the son of the trinity to descent upon earth and save us again?
It’s a myth don’t count upon it!
It’s weird how insanity rules one’s mind
We see nature we see calm seas we see greenery, yea it all exists
But still we cater our imagination to drugs, sex, alcohol and nirvana

What is nirvana I ask?
Believe me there is nothing like it that exists, the salvation for Carpe diem
John Calvin was surely an intelligent man
He believed there is nothing like salvation that exists on earth, only Eden has it
And we being human are forced by god to sin and if we don’t we die
We have no choice!!

It’s such a drudgery seeing people fight seeing people living lives in a robotic motion
I am no different.
A job, a salary, a movie, a dinner. Where is our life?
The answer is moving around malls and expensive clothing.
Is this that we should live for, ask yourself?
It was so much better a thousand year back when men and women were together
No rules no boundations NO ROLES!!!
We meditated, we fell in love, we forgave, we danced, we contemplate
We had no regrets no hate no feeling for revenge
It’s like we are de-civilizing ourselves with time!!

The question is not where is life taking us? The question is where are we talking our lives, where is the world taking us?
Into nothingness into false believes of riches and into believing that urbanization and money is the cure to every problem.

By repeatedly saying it and may be believing it, it’s still a false idea and not the truth.

Soliloquy

I question you and I question myself. A desired deal...

In this my soliloquy I cry for help!!!

Your confession room feels so distant and I still see you sitting next to me.

My Lord! pour me to you... As I were the holy wine...

Be my orator... speak what I have in me to people that I love...

I cant speak my mind to them... the distnace is killing me.

Be close to me, as I am in you.. and together we will find an ANSWER.

Random.. :-/

I want to hold u

I want to kiss u… that one last time!!

Just don’t know y cant I take that last leap ahead.

I know I can’t forget u and

I know I will never get u

But still I know the last drop of my blood will scream your name aloud.

My heart beats for u and

I want to shine for u

But still my heart renders to my ego.

I cry the day out and cry the entire night

Thinking about that last fight

But still the next morning I get up, feeling blank… I got no clue what to do!!

I am lost and I know I am giving up too soon

But I am not finding a way out and I know no one can help me but me

But still I can’t move from where u left me…

Duniya sab janjaal hai

Kabhi lagta hai ye saali duniya kya hai

Bhooke ko pyaas hai

Gareeb ko roti nahi sharaab ki aas hai

Toote dil jodne ki dawa nahi

Par budhape ki nishani khatam ki daud bhaag hai

Kabhi lagta hai ye saali duniya kya hai

Jo chala gaya uski yaad main roya jata hai

Jo hai vo pyrar ki aas main khoya jata hai

Khuwaish to thi asmaan ki hume

Mui takdeer aisi nikli ki marte hue khuda zameen ki dhool chata jata hai

Kabhi lagta hai se saale duniya kya hai

Kehte hain ki ma-baap ke peron main duniya sama jaati hai

Tab kya karein jab unhi ki nazar muh pe tamacha maar jaati hai

dil to karta hai aaj hi duniya chhode dun,

par kya karein saali duniya hi aisi hai ki

shatranj ki bisaad bicha ke humein bas mohra hi bana jaati hai…

(BOSS DUNIYA KAYA KAHUN MAIN BAS ultimate!!!)

MOVE FORWARD ALREADY..

Its strange to see men trying to endure the women that they just left.
They are the one who broke off on the first place and still they are the one who call who they just dumped back.

Every now and then a forward about love and friendship, a casual email of happy diwali and merry Christmas; and also a wish on your birthday exactly at 12 a.m., which they never did when you actually dated them- a reminder of their existence to us and to us a reminder of the huge mistake we had made.

Then the pitiful cry for help, an email that says they are sorry and please can we be friends again... its a trap that many women fall into and why because they still love them. they say yes to friendship and after 2 months we see them together again and your best friend is then changed to agony aunt one more time; devastated but she has no choice but to listen you. Believe if she had a choice she would be cribbing to some else about her bf. Its a cycle unending. (i know been an agony aunt of years.)

The right thing to do here is to ignore that comes, even if u make a call or sms don't revert to it more then once and if you do the second time... just use the polite but very abusive words (ironical but still do that). Give yourself some time and move on, it always works to get a new bf (this time try not to be so attached... read the line again as many women skip it intentionally).

Now the finale, i know none of you women will attend to what i just said, but still had to make u understand for the sake of sister cum womanhood. ;)